We live our days with so many words that are occasionally said like (if it weren’t for my parents I would’ve become someone or done something), (my friends made me do that), (I’ve agreed to do that cause he said he likes me)….etc
People are becoming so good in blaming others for everything they are going through and saying that they don’t have control of the things that are happening
Well, there are off course things which we all have no choice in them like the weather, the color of your skin, or even your parents. But surprisingly, this list is so small, much smaller than many of us seems to realize, and that the things that we don’t have control over shouldn’t affect the other things, let me give you examples.
You don’t have the choice of being born in a poor family and going to a public school, but you do have the choice of studying hard, being at the top of the school even if it is a public one, and make something out of yourself
You don’t have the choice of choosing the color of your skin but you do have the choice of treating people in the same way and not discriminate them according their colors, and realize that people are not seen by their colors, but through their hearts and minds.
The point is that people should really stop blaming others for their own actions. Maybe your parents didn’t help you in one way or another the way you want them to, that’s not your fault. But now you are grown up enough to make your own decisions and make your life the way you want, so if you screw that up, don’t blame them, it is your actions now, and your decisions so stand up and take some responsibility for your actions
Friends are the blessed of life, but that doesn’t mean that they should be taken for granted or be trusted with blind eyes, they easily can convince you to do whatever they want, but just like they have the ability and the power to convince you, don’t you have the same power to realize right from wrong, to know if they want what it is best for you, or s
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